Sex drive, hot butt...an ideal girlfriend?

A lot has been said about what men think women want and vice versa. A recent survey done in the United Kingdom asked men what fits their benchmark of an ideal girlfriend and found out that a high sex drive, thin figure, pert bottom, and high earner tops the priority list. So, We spoke to a few guys and gals to find if it holds true or not and found that in most cases their ideal one was – Kate Winslet!

It's the perfect survey
Ankit Tayal, 23, professional, says, "Well, I think the survey summed it up pretty well. I would love a girl who earns more than me, and has a higher sex drive than I do, and well, looks better than me — ideal package!" His ideal girl? Megan Fox. Anupam Roy, 25, professional, agrees, "Oh, I would love it if my girl earns more than I do, then I can gradually leave my job, as I feel that I'm too lazy and generally guys are lazy people. My ideal girl should be unbearably beautiful, bearably stupid, and should be good in bed." His ideal girl? Kate Winslet.

It's more about the funny bone than the sexy butt
While the survey says that men desire looks more than humour, some Delhi guys would like to differ. Says Viraj Gupta (23), "Who wouldn't want the whole package of looks, money and sex? My ideal girl should be decently educated, have a simple lifestyle, a sense of humour would be good, and should look okay, looks are not that important." His ideal girl? Kate Winslet, for her grace.

Says Prateek Kapil, student, "My ideal girl should have a funny bone, she should be fiercely independent and should look good." His ideal girl: Cristina Scabbia, lead vocalist of the metal band Lacuna Coil. Agrees student Arun Khanna (24), "My ideal girl should be pretty, should have a sense of humour, not ruthlessly career driven or excessively competitive.The survey speaks for most guys, however the earning a higher salary part could be a point of contention between the couple." And his ideal girl? Kate Winslet or Kat Dennings.

Men can handle a more successful counterpart
Disagrees Sonali Sapra (23), MBA student, "I disagree with the survey that men want high salary earning women. I haven't met any man who thinks like that and I completely agree that women should earn more and if the man has a problem he should strive to earn better and live up to a woman's expectations. I would associate Catherine Zeta Jones and Michael Douglas with this survey because while she is so successful, he doesn't even get offered with 'papa' roles."

Shallu Sharma believes that, "A man will have ego hassles if a woman earns more than them. I have met men who want you to eat and stay slim at the same time, and they have problems if you earn more, but if you are not career-minded they have a major problem. A very good case in point would be Arbaaz Khan and Malaika Arora Khan, probably Arbaaz has no ego hassles."

The desire for a thin girl
While the survey states that men would like their perfect mate to dig into a meal without any qualms and contradictorily be slim at the same time, Shraddha Bhateja (23), commercial pilot, disagrees, "I don't think guys like skinny girls, that is totally untrue and most of my male friends would agree with me. Both partners should take care of the family (including kids) and both should be career-minded for a successful relationship."

In stark contrast Lisa Boye (22), airlines security agent, says, "I completely agree with the survey. Eat and stay fit, how hard is that? Who would like a person who makes a fuss at a restaurant and is on diets all the time? Half the fun is gone right there."

Men want girls who are family oriented and will have babies
The salary package of the perfect woman is a debate amongst men and women alike. Some feel men have ego hassles while others disagree. The survey states that women should be career-minded, earn more than her man as well as stay at home and take care of the kids.

Prateek Kapil, 23, student, says, "I think that guys will agree with the very high salary part. If she earns more than the guys, then the guy is not going to like it, though I personally don't agree with that."

Agrees Mehak Saluja, a quality analyst, "Men want women to stay at home but I don't think they want one who earns more than them, it brings in ego hassles. Not everyone is like an Abhishek Bachchan who can walk along with his very successful wife, while he still has to make a mark." Arun seems to sum it up, "The survey is all correct, except the part which says guys want their partner to earn more than them. This is not true for most guys as they have huge egos. The part where the survey goes contradictory and says that though high earning, the girl should be family oriented is true for guys; they want someone to be family oriented and have babies."

Let's talk sex, baby
Talk about sex drive and we surprisingly had two views! While some felt that sex drive is important, but intimacy was rated higher, all men agreed that sex drives relationships. Says Anupam, "She should be good in bed and that should be more important than her having a brilliant sex drive. I mean what's the point of her wanting to do it, if she is not good in bed, right?"

Some like Prateek feel that having a huge appetite for sex could be cumbersome in a closed society like India. "Having a sex drive is good, but wanting to do it everywhere and all the time would be too much, especially in India, where you don't find much space, so it could get embarrassing," says Prateek. Adds Viraj, "As for sex drive, even the guys should have a good sex drive, if the guy doesn't do anything, what will the poor girl do?"

Will men ever come to a consensus on the ideal GF?
While the never-ending debate between men and women continues, what we conclude is that not only women, but men too have high demands. Most of the demands are well, contradictory, but that does not stop men from fantasising about the perfect woman who cooks, cleans, earns, eats, is slim and beautiful all at the same time. We'd say it's time you took a reality check, guys!

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The Signs of a Woman Who is Having Sexual Problems

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You must always be on your toes to ensure that you are up to speed when it comes to the overall state of your sexual relationship with your spouse or partner. Deniability is one of the potential dangers that you must be aware of. You have to be able to detect potential, unfolding and current sexual problems that may serious create havoc to your relationship. If you are not experiencing satisfaction from your sexual encounter, and you are affected by the situation and feel that the event has negating effect on your relationship, then chances are you are facing some form of sexual problem.

Here are some of the more common indicators that you are facing sexual problems:

• Decreased sexual appetite, fewer sexual fantasies and reluctance to engage in sex

• Inability to respond to explicit sexual suggestions, feel and stay stimulated

• Failure to plateau and reach orgasm

• Painful sexual intercourse

Results of various studies indicate that 1 in every 2 women in the US are experiencing one or a combination of the four forms of sexual dysfunction – sexual arousal disorder, sexual pain disorder, orgasmic disorder and low libido. Among the four forms of sexual dysfunction, low libido is the most common problem of women.

This brings us to the issue of deniability. If you tend to ignore or refuse to acknowledge the existence of sexual problems, the condition can grow out of proportion. Serious forms of sexual problems can lead to infidelity, emotional distress and separation. The sexual malady can become so severe that women develop fear of sexual intercourse. It is this fear that makes women avoid contact and serious relationship with men. If the problem persists, the condition may leave an indelible mark in the psyche and renders love and sexual satisfaction almost impossible. The person will then go to a downward spiral and experience depression, low self-esteem and loneliness.

Sexual problems can be triggered by the following:

• Emotional – depression, stress, anxiety, low self esteem, sexual trauma

• Physical – hormonal anomalies, contraceptive pills, pelvic trauma, infections, aging

• Medical Problems – incontinence, diabetes, UTI, arthritis, hypertension, hypothyroidism, multiple sclerosis

• Convalescence – tissue or muscle trauma from surgery or cancer treatment

• Medication side effects – drugs for hypertension, depression, diabetes and chemotherapy

• Alcoholism – excessive alcohol intake affects one’s ability to achieve orgasm

Treatment options will largely depend on the overall nature of the sexual problem and the underlying causes. The common alternatives include treatment of the primary medical condition, sex education and counseling, utilization of sex aids and lubricants and therapy.

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Is your partner financially unfaithful?

Ever hidden a purchase from your partner or stored away some cash secretly?

Financially 'cheating' your spouse or partner is something that is and has been prevalent and couples indulge in it sometimes without even knowing that it amounts to 'cheating'. A man goes out with his gang of buddies and they spend a few thousands at a resto-bar, though he knows his wife will not like it. So, he simply avoids telling her about it. In another instance a woman who knows her husband would question her about her salon visits, decides to keep mum about her beauty parlour bills. This is financial infidelity, in its mildest forms.

Dr Kersi Chavda, psychiatrist, says, "Sometimes, a person cannot control their shopping or spending impulses; to avoid a fracas at home, they lie." He maintains that when it is about a simple manicure then, it's not such a big thing. "However," he adds, "when this involves an enormous amount of money, then it can be a problem."

The money secrets that partners keep from their better halves, takes many forms - ranging from harmless and idiosyncratic, to hurtful and destructive. Most partners have indulged in it at some point or the other. The sad part about monetary cheating is that, very often, it is so subtle that people don't know they're engaging in it, yet it can be just as devastating when it is finally out in the open.

Sometimes, this can also be well intentioned. Somya Mohanty, a human resource executive, says, "I have secretly saved money to surprise my husband. I know he always spends too much and that is the reason I have not told him about this extra cash." The reason for the monetary cheating here, may not be a bad one but it still is cheating, though a mild form. This kind of behaviour may lead to mistrust in the partner later and the overall health of the relationship may suffer because of this say experts.

It may also undermine the trust in the relationship and rob you of the intimacy you share with your better half.

It is important for couples to keep in mind that if they are feeling guilty of something, then there is infidelity of some kind involved. Communication that is open and honest will help build and nurture a relationship. Doubts and suspicions take root and grow when there is secret spending and hidden account balances.
The bottom line definitely is that however small the topic might be, it is important to share and discuss everything with your partner, if you want a healthy and happy relationship.

Reasons
- He/she never makes me feel that I am entitled to buy things for myself or spend on myself.
- We rarely share each and every thing with each other, so I do not find any reason to tell him/her everything about where and on what I spend.
- I do not trust my partner and I am sure he/she does not trust me either.
- We just cannot seem to solve our problems regarding money matters. Because I do not think that that this amounts to cheating.

Effects
- You fail to achieve greater intimacy.
- You do not develop a respect for the difference in each other's personalities.
- You are robbed of a safe way to work through your differences.
- You may lose out on a big topic of discussion - finance - that sometimes helps bind couples together.

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No Outside Interference: Birth Control Alternatives

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Some people just don’t like using certain types of contraceptives. There can be a number of reasons for this objection. It is believable to say that they would cite religious reasons for their objections, though that argument may be fading out, if some statistics are to be believed. Another typically cited reason would be that a number of popular methods of birth control are simply flawed. A condom is not always effective and a number of factors can make even the most potent birth control medication still have an appreciable risk of pregnancy. There are, of course, other methods that do not entail the use of pharmaceutical and external tricks but instead rely more on good old-fashioned discipline. These methods present their own risks, largely due to the fact that the less experienced the person is in the method, the less successful it is.

There is no arguing that the lack of sex is inevitably going to be the best birth control available. The simple logic of abstinence is hard to deny, since if they’re not having sex, there’s no chance of getting pregnant. However, this may also prove to be the most psychologically taxing. While the whole “people have needs” argument is not as valid as some might lead you to believe, it does have a level of credence. The extreme discipline that abstinence requires is very difficult to attain, especially in today’s environment, which has the patience and attention span of an average child of six. Abstinence as birth control may be the only guaranteed way to prevent pregnancy, but it is hardly the easiest one to get a grip on, especially in the long-term.

Most people simply don’t have the discipline or self-control for abstinence without years of training and conditioning to help fight the basic urge to procreate. Even the ones that have had that sort of training find it difficult at times, if the various scandals that the clergymen of the Catholic Church have been involved in through the ages are any indication.

An alternative to it is a method known as Natural Family Planning, which is still firmly based in abstinence, but is less demanding on the length of time removed from sexual contact with one’s partner. This method relies on reading the physical factors of the female half of the relationship, taking notes on things such as discharge and cervical temperature to evaluate whether or not she’s in a fertile state. Obviously, as a birth control method, this still poses some risks. Reading physical signs, even ones as scientifically quantified as the ones that NFP uses, can often be highly subjective. Any misreading or misinterpretation of the body’s signals can result in a variable risk of pregnancy. In general, experience and knowledge can help lessen the risk of human error, but experience usually comes from “field testing” the method.

Similar to NFP, the Creighton Model also uses the body’s own signals as a basis for birth control scheduling. The method uses tell-tale signs of fertility and infertility, such as blood discharge and cervical mucus, to determine the time when the female is at the lowest possible risk of pregnancy. Other details, such as blood tests to detect estrogen and progesterone, are used to accurately time a woman’s cycle. The method is touted as having an effective rate of 99.5%, along with the ability to be customized to accommodate for biological and physiological traits that are individual in nature.

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10 cruel things women do to men

Despite being known as the fairer sex, women can be downright nasty and often do cruel things to men.

Now, Fox News has compiled a list of top 10 cruel things that women do to men and how they play with the guy's emotions or ego.

10. They don't pick up the phone
While men feel good as they manage to take the girls' phone number, the girls often give them a fake number or don't pick up the call.

9. Use men for free drinks
Some women go out never planning to spend any of their own money on drinks at the bar or club. Instead, they count on their feminine wiles to convince guys to shell out for their libations. While some of them might begin to get to know him, the cruel and heartless ones will take that drink, flirt a little and move on.

8. Use men as placeholders
If she is a decent person, she'll just get it over with and dump the boy, but if she's cruel, she'll hold on to him for a while until somebody new comes along. These girls don't like to be alone and without a relationship, so instead of putting you out of your misery and ending it, she'll string you along until she meets someone to replace you.

7. Emotionally manipulate men
Men don't like to see women cry and some cruel women take advantage of the fact and use it to get what they want. A few tears would make men do anything to get it to stop.

6. Use physical violence
While men hitting girls are often termed nasty, some cruel women feel it's perfectly acceptable to hit their boyfriends, as he would never hit her back. This type of woman feels like she can inflict any kind physical pain on him without fear of repercussion.

5. Criticize their men in public
Cruel women criticize and humiliate their men in public places. They often poke fun at her man or even soundly debase him.

4. They don't disclose their relationship status
It's certainly not the worst thing a woman could do to a man, but it is annoying when she's already in a relationship and lets you assume that she's available so that she can enjoy the man's flirtation and flattery.

3. They withhold sex
This is a time-tested, and frequently used, cruel thing for women to do to men. For most men, sex is as important as breathing, so withholding it in order to get something she wants or simply to punish her man for his transgressions is a pretty awful thing to do, even if it is effective.

2. They test their men
You're all ready to go for a night out with your friends, when your girlfriend calls and asks you to change your plans to be with her instead. She doesn't have any particular reason; she just wants to see you. She knows that you had plans to meet up with the guys, but if you really loved her, you'd come over to her place instead. If her request comes with an "if you really loved me," then it's a test. If you choose anything other than immediately rushing to her side, you're going to fail. This kind of testing in a relationship is indeed cruel and petty.

1. They flirt to inspire jealousy
Maybe she's feeling underappreciated, maybe you've just had a big fight or maybe she just enjoys the tortured look on your face. For whatever reason, girls who flirt obviously with other guys in front of their boyfriends are immature and manipulative.

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Why Do People Become Obsessed With Celebrities?

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You only have to step into a local shop and look at the rows and rows of glossy magazines to see that we are a nation that is obsessed with celebrity. Heat magazine is one of the biggest selling magazines in the UK with a circulation of over half a million, and this is only one of a long list of celebrity gossip magazines that is produced each week.

The title of the ultimate British celebrity magazine should probably go to Ok! magazine. It is a favourite of many celebrities who will turn to the magazine to reveal any revelations or scandal in their lives. Ok! covers more celebrity weddings, pregnancies and engagements than any other magazines. Most celebrities will use Ok! as a platform to promote something good in their lives and it is well known that they will receive a hefty payment in return. Ok! magazine was first published in 1993 and since then there has been a huge influx in rival magazines all claiming to be the first port of call for inside celebrity gossip.

But what is it about celebrity that fascinates us so much? In my opinion there is more than one reason. For some people it is simply a case of lifestyle envy. Celebrities appear to have it all: money, looks, a fabulous lifestyle and worldwide recognition. They seem to live a magical lifestyle that some of us aspire to achieve. Celebrities have become a new form of god figure and we allow ourselves to fantasise that our lives could one day be like theirs. Some people even feel that proximity to celebrities will elevate them from a normal person to celebrity status. Or perhaps they think that maybe they can befriend a rich celeb and that they will share some of their wealth with them? Either way this is a pretty deluded state of mind. It is very unlikely that a celebrity will allow an average Joe to ride on the coat tails of his or her success.

Another reason for our celebrity obsession is our natural human instinct to be interested in other human beings. Essentially we are pretty nosy creatures. We like to hear what is going on in the lives of people around us. This becomes heightened when directed at the world of celebrity as their lives are so different and more extravagant than ours. We are naturally fascinated by the unknown and unfamiliar. However, this curiosity can be a double-edged sword. We are fascinated by the seemingly perfect lives of celebrities but at the same time we are always waiting for something to go wrong.

We do not always want to hear how well someone is doing and it is a well known fact that scandal always sells more than good news. Sometimes it takes someone else’s bad news to make us feel better about our lives. Of course this seems a twisted logic but it is a fact, and the magazine circulation numbers back this up. People are much more likely to want to read about a married footballer’s sleazy affair with a page three model than the good news that a pop star is set to break America. Just look at the current Cheryl and Ashley Cole situation. The bottom line is: scandal sells.

Each week the media churn out pictures of flawless celebrities that have been air-brushed thus setting an unrealistic goal for the likes of you and me. This is why when a celeb is spotted without her makeup we feel better because they are instantly put on a level with the average person. An element of normality is created. We rejoice in seeing a celeb looking bad because it makes us feel better about our bad hair days and so-called fat days. `

A way of feeling closer to our favourite celebrities and idols is to collect memorabilia associated with them. If we own a piece of signed memorabilia it is as if we have some sort of connection or are paying homage to them in some sense. Avid fans often keep large collections of items associated with a certain celebrity and invest a certain amount of emotion into their collection. If you or someone close to you is looking to add to their collection or perhaps start a collection of treasured articles then visit Genuine Memorabilia’s online website. The company boasts a collection of over 6,000 signed articles to choose from. It includes memorabilia from the world of sport, film, rock and pop, theatre and television. Visit Genuine Memorabilia today.

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Sex addiction is controllable

Sex addiction is controllable, according to an expert, who says her new research could help treat the problem by dealing with the issues causing impulsive sexual behaviour.

"When people say `sex addict' they shrug their shoulders and say `it's out of my control''. It is within their control," Stuff quoted Sex Therapy NZ co-director Robyn Salisbury saying.

For an addict, the behaviour is not about sex but more an urge for sexualised relief, she said.

"Out-of-control sexual behaviour is not about the sexual drive, just like alcohol isn't about being thirsty, Salisbury said.

"If people are uptight or lonely they will eat, drink or have a drive to have sex. The compulsion doesn't meet their needs; it's just looking for a temporary soother.

Addicts end up getting a "mindless buzz", which can be heartbreaking for intimate partners, she added.

More than 880 people participated in an anonymous online questionnaire about their sex life and personal relationships for a Massey University honours project.

Clinical psychology student Karen Faisandier said she wanted to delve into the reasons behind out-of-control sexual behaviours (OOCSB).

The online survey questions included whether they engaged in online sex, prostitution, or sex that made them feel degraded.

Many factors played a role in such behaviour, including how childhood relationships with parents mould the way people feel and behave in romantic relationships.

The findings also confirmed previous research that found people with sex addictions were more likely to feel anxious about relationships and avoid intimacy.

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January 6 – The day of pornography on YouTube !

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Anonymous from 4chan announced on January 6 day pornography on YouTube anonymously 4chan forum was scheduled for January 6 mass laying open on the YouTube clips of pornography, writes TechCrunch.

Like all such operations, this is in preparation of foreign decent videos containing pornographic inserts. Anonymous agreed to create fake accounts on YouTube, download pornoroliki, but not publish them until the appointed time. As planned by the organizers, January 6 at the video hosting thousands of videos will appear immediately interspersed pornostsen.

This action is in response to lock the account eight gamers Nintendo, Lukeywes1234, which on 4chan already declared king and God. The boy, who along with his grandmother shot miniseries about the heroes of Game, 2 January announced that he would like to February to receive 50 subscribers. Anonymous 4chan decided to help Lukeywes1234 score at 50, and more than 9000 subscribers. In achieving this goal by anonymous, according to Encyclopedia Dramatica, took about a day. By 4 January, the boy was already 14 thousand subscribers, and another 12 hours froze YouTube Lukeywes1234.

The administration explained the decision that the child is too small to use the service. Shares, which is the main condition of anonymity, 4chan and other users of such resources, regularly. For example, in July 2009, they made the word gorillapenis most popular topic in Twitter, and in April raised the creator of 4chan, user moot, to the top of the magazine Time.

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Magnetic bras spell end for tricky hooks

The battle to fasten and unfasten lingerie using those tricky bra hooks seems to have come to an end – thanks to magnets.

A British department store has unveiled a hi-tech line of lingerie that stays on.

Selfridges will soon sell a collection of French lingerie in which the fastenings are replaced with tiny, invisible magnets rather than the traditional hooks, reports News .

The bra comes with a matching pair of 'clip-on, clip-off' panties, which have magnetic strips at the sides.
Created by French designer Laetitia Schlumberger, the 'Dement' - French word for 'insane' – underwear starts from 165 pounds for a bra and panties set.

"Fumbling to unhook a bra strap can actually be quite a passion killer," said Helen Attwood, the head lingerie buyer at Selfridges.

"This new magnetic lingerie is the biggest innovation in the underwear market for years. Those moments wasted with the bra fumble can now be put to much better use," she added.

The new underwear goes on sale at Selfridges stores and online this week.

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All about reaching an orgasm

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Unhappy with your sex life? Don't feel dejected. It's time to add some zing to your sex romps, courtesy our seven point guide to the Big O.

1. Be comfortable : While experimentation is all important, do not try positions that you are physically uncomfortable in. What works for you, might not work for someone else, so remember the key to good sex is finding a hot spot that works for you and your partner. Experiment with positions that give you more leverage to hit the right spots. And feel maximum pleasure. Communicate what position you feel best in to your better half as that will give you better access to their moan zones.

2. Feel the vibrations : A lot of us may not believe this, but using a vibrator during sex can lend immense pleasure to both partners and if time is of the essence, there's nothing more efficient than this sex machine. Just ensure you're giving your man extra TLC, so that he doesn't feel left out or that he's not needed in the act.

3. Fantasy unlimited : Using your imagination during the act goes a long way if you're not really feeling all that excited. Fantasies are very powerful and act as a potent sexual stimulus, so use it to enhance the physical sensations that are happening and soon you'll be in seventh heaven.

4. Curb distractions : While having sex, cut out all distractions - be it keeping your eye on an ongoing football match or on the clock or checking your phone or laptop for mails and messages. Be committed to the act of sex like it's a job you are on because getting distracted will only deter your performance.

5. Don't think of the end result : Sometimes, the harder you try, the harder it becomes to feel pleasure. If all you are focussed on is getting an orgasm, chances are that it will be more difficult to attain. Don't make your climax the sole objective. Enjoy the sensations, the smell, the foreplay, the caressing and the words. As someone said - 'it's a journey, not a destination.'

6. Indulge in porn : Magazines, DVDs, internet porn; there's no harm using external stimulation to get a sexual high. Watching other people having sex is an incredible turn on and can speed your sex session well. Just remove the porn DVD from your disc drive before that an important presentation at work or if you have kids at home to avoid embarrassment.

7. Talk the talk : Gone are the days when sex was supposed to be a silent process. Talk freely to your beau about what turns you on, your hot spots and the ways in which you feel pleasured the most and it's likely that you will discover a new meaning to a routine sex ritual. Also, during sex don't be afraid to moan aloud or call aloud your lover's name. It may just act as an added turn on!

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Holidays Special: Singles want friendship, not sex

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A survey on nearly 150,000 romantic hopefuls has found that when looking for love, friendship is their number one priority, while sex was not thought to be that important.

The survey, by online dating website eHarmony.com.au , revealed that friendship and chemistry came in as the top two most popular relationship ideals among all age groups, reports the Sydney Morning Herald .

Both genders placed friendship and chemistry as the two most important qualities, and while women placed more importance on kindness men did not.

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Partners' ability to communicate is seen as more important by women than men, and men placed more importance on enjoying physical closeness than women.

Where quality in a partner was concerned, both genders listed ten most sought after qualities.

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1. Friendship between me and my partner
2. Chemistry between me and my partner
3. Enjoying the way I feel around my partner
4. Having my partner be open with me about feelings
5. My partner's personality
6. My partner's kindness
7. Romantic attraction I feel for my partner
8. Being able to easily talk about personal problems with my partner
9. Enjoying physical closeness with my partner
10. Being able to discuss with my partner how I am feeling towards him/her

They also listed the top five least important qualities.

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1. Knowing that my spouse is usually to blame when things go wrong
2. Importance of match's income
3. Importance of match's religion
4. Importance of match's education
5. Importance of match's height

olivia wilde

from eva nice dream by jack baker

january jones

from eva nice dream by jack baker